Life Coach in the Hot Seat: The Book that Changed my Life

The book that changed my life…

I am a huge reader.  OK scratch that.  I am a huge GLEANER. 

 Books are my mentors so many time I will find myself gravitating to certain types of books that are giving me the same message through different voices. 

 Write. Paint. Run a Business.   

Take time with God.

The book that is changing my life right now is

 “The Voice of Matthew” by Lauren F. Winner. 

  The paperback book looks unassuming.  

 You would probably not think that is contains the book of Matthew from the New testament of the Bible. 

 It is rocking my world right now. 

  I am reading this section of the Bible in a way I have not read it in a very long time.  Reading the Bible not simply out of obligation or to find answers to the current uncontrollable circumstance.  It is leaving me rethinking and hoping for more and letting go and striving for less and being at peace and forgiving in ways that I have not done in a long time.   

The commentary Winner presents is poetry and a taskmaster at the same time.

 

I feel like I am falling in love again.   

With God. With my life.  And my husband and children.  With me.

What book is changing your life lately?   

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Life Coach in the Hot Seat: What I Listen to While I Work

One of my favorite things to do while I am working is to listen to people who inspire me.  They inspire me wither by the way that they live life or the way they create with abandon or the way they love God – many embody all three characteristics.  Here are my favorites:

Jamie Ridler Studios

Graham Cooke

Erwin McManus

Danielle LaPorte

Rob Bell

Oprah and her super Soul Sundays

Jonathon Fields and The Good Life Project

TD Jakes

I wish I could add music to the mix but I find that lately at least it is mostly about spoken word.  I have not tried audio books.  The ones on the list – though they may provide video – I choose to listen while I work.  When it comes to documentaries though (my love for these I will tackle another day) and super soul Sunday I find I must watch and take the whole experience in.

What are you listening to lately?

Life Coach in the Hot Seat: Life Advice for my Children

Full disclosure. 

 I have had the chance to try my hand at parenting twice.   

Once as a 20 year old and once as a 37 year old.   

Clearly the 37 year old has figured some things out – thank God.  

 The 20 year old had no family support and was truly a baby when she was getting started though she did not realize it.  I could almost change this question and write a letter to that 20 year old mother.

Here are some thoughts that I feel like have held the test of time in both settings:

1.       God extends a ton of mercy and grace in the areas where you have made mistakes with your kids.  I can see that I was trying to figure out how to be a grown up at the same time as trying to be a mother and man oh man.  I just feel like I am better at this things now.  I don’t take it personally when my child gets angry and says she doesn’t like me.  I have a vision for my children’s future and part of my job as a parent is to teach them about good and bad influences in the world in the areas of people and places and circumstance they do not need to get mixed up in.

2.       God helps you to raise your children.  When I had no idea how to handle a situation the bible was very helpful for teaching me how to love to be patient to be kind in the midst of terrible twos and tweens and teens and even as a grow into adulthood (though I will admit this stage if even harder because you are watching how all that mothering plays out).

3.        Apologize for the mistake you have made, are making and continue to make but DO NOT become a doormat to your child’s out of line behaviors or attitude toward you.  There is a reason why love is sometimes tough

4.       Discipline and boundaries = love just like hugs and kisses do

What are some of your time tested truths from parenthood?  

 Share them in the comments or add a link to your post below

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Waiting for the answer you need

I'm learning to be quiet with myself.  The view is clearer through the stillness.

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 Carol Franco

It is not always easy to be still.  Waiting for the answers that only come from the quiet.  Letting our hearts and our minds settle.  Not making a decision too quickly.  Not giving the immediate answer.

Think about a decision that you made where you reaped valuable benefits from taking that time to let the decision marinate a bit.

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